Something to think about...

Something to think about...

Shannon Dexter Barnes  //  A creative executive leader, strategist, organizational coach, husband, father, friend, and grace-covered pilgrim looking to change the world...starting with me.

Aug 21 / 11:30am

The Problem With Masks

There is a face that we hide till the nighttime appears,

And what's hiding inside, behind all of our fears,

Is our true self locked inside the facade.

 

- from Jekyll & Hyde

 

We all wear masks. That's not the issue. The point is that most of us have no idea how to take them off. Masking is a big problem, because continual masking results in serious relational breakdowns.

 

Ask yourself this question, "Do some of these relational breakdowns below remind me of myself?"

  • I lose my objectivity in a crisis and I become the issue.
  • I am highly susceptible to wrong life choices.
  • I am unable to be loved or to love.
  • I am highly sensitized to my sin and I judge the sin of others.
  • I hide my sin and become vulnerable to even more sin.
  • I attempt to control others.

If you found yourself in any of these, we can encourage you. First, God's grace specializes in imperfection. Relax. Second, the Father's love, expressed through others, is designed to melt your masks. Third, "trusting others with you" is essential for your masks to begin melting. (Many of our free vlogs, blogs, and podcasts will show you how to test the waters of this authentic life.) Finally, the little booklet Behind the Mask (available from www.truefaced.com) has helped thousands experience the biblical truths of grace that melt masks, and it might help you too.

 

Living an authentic life full of joy, where our life issues are being resolved, is not a minor issue with God. It's the gold standard of life in Jesus. And we want you to experience the "gold."

Written by Bruce, Bill & John - for the Truefaced community

www.truefaced.com

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Aug 17 / 11:32am

Molly Gordon - Thoughts on "The Secret"

Molly’s the real deal – a insightful and sensitive thinker who passes on wisdom through her blog and regular emails. Here’s one I recently received…

Why "The Secret" Hasn't Made You a Millionaire

This article goes against much of what passes for spiritual teaching these days. It says that succeeding (even modestly) is hard work. It also says you can do it.

If self-employment isn't turning out the way you want, this could be the most important thing you read this year.

It begins with farming.

Reading the "Farmers' Almanac" won't make you a farmer

You wouldn't expect to transform yourself from a suburban gardener to a full-fledged farmer by reading the "Farmers' Almanac." For one thing, it's a hodgepodge of old wive's tales, raw data, and casual anecdote. Not the kind of guide you need for a complex endeavor.

And then there's the gap between reading it and doing it. Even if the instructions were great and you followed them perfectly, life would happen. Weather would romp across your fields. Insects would treat your crops like a fast food joint. Weeds would do their weedy thing.

It's the same with anything you do, including earning a living.

"The Secret" won't make you successful

Like the "Farmers' Almanac," "The Secret" is a hodgepodge of truth, partial truth, and myth. As such, it's an incomplete map of the territory between where you are and where you want to go.

"The Secret" suggests that the means for getting from where you are to where you want to go is invocation of spiritual laws.

Hogwash. Not that there aren't spiritual laws (that's the part that's true). But the human ego doesn't get to manipulate spiritual law for its own purposes. And, trust me, when you're wanting to attract something into your life, however exalted, your ego is involved.

The ego is not a bad thing

The ego is the engine of choice and action. It decides what we want and gets us into all sorts of messes along the way to getting it. And because we are both spiritual and material beings, we wrestle with the ego. We know that there is more to life than accruing wealth or power.

But here's the deal. Without the ego, there's no wrestling match. And the wrestling match is what life is all about. It's the vehicle for any transformation worthy of the name. Which, by the way, is why I claim that self-employment is a rigorous spiritual path.

So success, both material and spiritual, isn't about bypassing your ego (or pretending to) by invoking the Law of Attraction. It's about engaging your ego in the creation of your life and work.

It starts by deciding what you want to create

Here's one place where "The Secret" and I agree. Creation begins with deciding what you will create. And why on earth would you compromise on this piece? Choose something that makes your heart sing, and be sure to include the material resources you'll need to play the accompaniment.

You might ask if it isn't arrogant to make an audacious choice. And yes, it would be, if you believed you could command your choice into being. But, in fact, you are only the junior partner in the act of creation. And junior partners get to do the scut work. Which brings us to the next step.

Decide how you're going to create

What are you going to do to get results? No passive "manifesting" here. You're going to need something more concrete here than positive thinking. As the junior partner in the business of creating, you're responsible for making what you want take form in the physical world. That's why you have a body. And a brain. And emotions that, well, that motivate you.

You know, or can find out, what you have to do to build what you want, so no excuses.

Do the thing

Start building. Start where you can with what you have. Keep track of what you do so you can learn what works and what doesn't.

And, by the way, keep doing the thing. It's been said that magic is the marriage of intention and action. I would add iteration. Very few things work the way you expect the first time out. The beauty is that you get to keep trying.

A word about energy and inspiration

Creating takes time and effort. Sometimes you even have to start over. That means you will need ongoing sources of energy and inspiration.

But sometimes they won't be there.

In real life, vision fades. Confidence flags. Energy drops. But that doesn't have to mean the end of creating. When you know that there will be bumps and slumps, you won't take them so personally. You can plan for them, which won't take away the ickiness, but will help you stay with it until things are looking up.

You can do this

I don't know if you can be a millionaire. I rather doubt that you want to be. But I know for certain that you can create more of what you want, more reliably, than you probably are now. And the key to doing that is to get into action.

I do believe that all the Universe is here to support you. The only question is whether you are bold enough to do your part.

U.S. Library of Congress ISSN: 1530-311X. Unless otherwise attributed, all material is written and edited by Molly Gordon, MCC. Copyright (c) Shaboom Inc.(r) 2010. All rights reserved. Visit our extensive archives at www.mollygordon.com

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Aug 16 / 10:08am

Quote: To Live...

"And this is the simple truth - that to live is to feel oneself lost. He who accepts it has already begun to find himself, to be on firm ground. Instinctively, as do the shipwrecked, he will look around for something to which to cling, and that tragic, ruthless glance, absolutely sincere, because it is a question of his salvation, will cause him to bring order into the chaos of his life. These are the only genuine ideas; the ideas of the shipwrecked. All the rest is rhetoric, posturing, farce." Soren Kierkegaard (1813-1855)

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Jun 14 / 9:22am

Quote: Overcoming Death

“How can death be overcome? By regarding, in moments of deepest concentration, our lives and the lives of those who are part of our lives as though we had already lost them in death, only to receive them back for a little while.” -Albert Schweitzer

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May 28 / 12:06pm

Quote: Finding Truth

"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." - Author Unknown

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